This was a moving piece, Scott. Sadly, I'm in a similar space with my last church—had to leave the Backyard Church because although I am bi, I am not Liberal and Dan Foster kicked me out because I'm Conservative (Libertarian actually).
It's funny how a church who proclaims to be accepting isn't really because of people's politics. Churches are what they are, collections of people and they all bring their biases with them.
I hope you find peace on your journey of faith.
Here is an article I wrote that I hope helps you reconcile your love and faith with a GOD who truly loves you and everyone.
WHY IT'S NOT A SIN TO BE GAY
https://medium.com/illumination/why-its-not-a-sin-to-be-gay-86b3fdbe0f2d