I liked the title of this article, mostly because I have said the same thing! LOL! Let me know what you think if you have time. Seems like we're on the same page with noting the Bible was written by a rather patriarichal bunch.

Peace.

Why It’s Not A Sin To Be Gay

How The Church Manufactures Sins GOD Never Created

https://medium.com/illumination/why-its-not-a-sin-to-be-gay-86b3fdbe0f2d