Great read, Kitty!! I'm still a Christian and I can do all of those things because well, I'm not under the thumb of some stupid self-righteous Church anymore.

If you have time, have a look at this story called, WHY JESUS LEFT THE CHURCH. https://medium.com/backyard-theology/why-jesus-left-the-church-aab86cb3dd0e

It's an eye opening series of how the Church left Jesus behind a long time ago and why no one should be following the Church's nonsense anymore.