Di, I can certainly understand the frustration of reformers like myself challenging the traditions and narrative of the Church and its Bible. It might seem like we're coming off as haters; but that is not what people like me are. The Catholic Church called the Reformers of 500 years ago similar names and accused them of not knowing GOD.
Here is an article for you to have a look at if you like, or not. It's up to you. But it reveals a lot about who I am and what goals people like me have in the Information Age of Christianity.
We all live, love, and learn daily. But please don't assume someone doesn't know GOD just because they have a different view than you have. If you really knew GOD, you would know GOD's name. Most Christians don't ... It's maybe time to learn why the Church hid the Name of GOD from you ...
I don't mind people referring to GOD has "her" because GOD is indeed both! Hope you have a great day!
Peace.
"I AM" GOD